Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Summery...


~Summery Shoes: I really love these lovely Crocs...a little bit of heaven on my feet! They are making my summer happy!:) I didn't choose them for the color scheme, but because they were the only ones my size in the clearance section...Yay!
Yep, it's definitely summer....sooo hot here in La. But there's a part of me that loves the steamy, heavy air and even the breathtaking humidity (as long as the hurricanes stay away!) Also loving the fresh tomatoes and blackberries....

~A Pool Update: We finished professional physical therapy for awhile back in May and for the past couple of weeks we've been back in aquatic "wellness" therapy. We decided to change facilities (many details but mainly because I can wheel Mom down into the pool on a ramp rather than having to transfer her into a pool chair...that has been very scary and basically unsafe, at best.) It was difficult to start at a new place but things have gone really well. At the old place, I had basically no help at all....and that was OK, just the way it was. At this new pool, the assistants can't do enough to help us...actually get in the pool with us, helping with exercises, etc. I haven't quite known how to react to having help (another subject, another time!)....at one point, Mom said I needed to stop trying to talk them out of helping us!! It's been a great experience so far and much better for Mom overall....we are thankful. On another note, I have shared about our vastly reduced insurance benefits which have greatly affected Mom's care. We have been informed that due to pressure from employers (like my Dad's benefits person) the insurance company will increase therapy credits. We are not sure what this means, but we are glad for what may be a return of a little justice on this issue.

~Just Some Jumbled Thoughts: Both pastors I heard yesterday spoke on coping with fear and uncertainty....by looking to an unchanging God. It was encouraging truth. I don't know about you, but there is often more reason for doubt and unsettledness than not in my little world. (if not your story, blessings on you!!) But the goal and the reality, I believe, is that faith makes a difference in our perspective and in our foundation, constrains our anxiety, and points our hope to what is lasting. Quote of the day: "The key to coping with fear is deciding who do we trust!" and (paraphrasing): "Realizing the depth of the Father's love at the Cross is the foundation for our belief that He can be trusted!" (Fr. John)

~Looking ahead: This Sat. I am having a garage sale. (I will hang big signs "in honor of Super-Dorinda!":) Not looking forward to it!! but hoping to add some badly needed cash to our "disposal income"! (gas prices are very bad w/my Dad's commute.) But we are very excited to spend some time next weekend over July 4th with family in Birmingham and then go to a couple campmeeting services at Pell City. (don't you know that will get me thinkin....)

[Update: The garage sale was not a complete failure, but enough of one that I have vowed to never do one again (unless someone else is runnin it!)...but some things did sale (and the buyers seemed very happy:), the rest of the junk I carted off to Goodwill so at least it's out of the garage (yay!), and there was some good talks with the neighbors....oh well!]

~A Link: While I mostly enjoy looking at blogs of friends...I will admit to being (at times) quite the surfer in blog world. I do prefer folks I at least have some small connection to (vs. random strangers)....but sometimes strangers are good, too, esp. the ones that you link to from those you do know to some small degree. Why do I (we) do this? not sure...mostly it's interesting to "see" the lives of others...sometimes it's just for the hoot of it all or just plain nosiness or to access very long link lists:)...sometimes just to read the unbelievably wild things others seem comfortable posting (And I know there are probably those saying the same for me!!:) At any rate, awhile back I stumbled onto a really great blog: the couch This is definitely one of the best I've seen. This girl (I think her name is Elizabeth) can write!! Very smart, quite witty, very sound perspectives, plus alot of depth. (The current post is about campmeeting!) Check her out!

~One more pic: We found this birdnest under the shattered crepe myrtle branches after a big storm. We've been amazed at the intricate design...but sad about the poor eggs. On that happy note!, hope everyone is enjoying summer!

Sunday, June 15, 2008

It's Father's Day...

It's Father's Day....here are probably my favorite pictures of Dad and me. I have clear memories of us "making faces" in the mirror. This time it was in a photo booth (he thinks I was maybe 3.) So many good things could be said about my Dad...but here are some of the attributes I am thinking of today:
~ Good and Godly (to the core)
~ Funny and Brilliant
~ Diligent and Hardworking
~ Unwaveringly committed
~ Forgiving...always sees the best in others
(except maybe in politics....:)
~ Giving...gives more than he expects
~ Humble and Unassuming
~ Loving and Tender
Happy Father's Day Dad! Love you Lots! These words are insufficient but true. (he will definitely read this....he had to scan the pics for me...he was "all about" getting his picture on the blog!:) "joking"!)
His card for today sums it up well..."You're a shining example of love and goodness in the world." And I am very blessed.

"The Great Debaters"

I was able to watch this DVD this weekend...and want to recommend it. I know....it's only loosely based on history...there are a couple questionable scenes and some doubtful themes...but all in all, it is a great story with some sound truths (that perhaps we don't hear enough of) mixed in. There is a particularly jarring lynching scene. Sometimes I think we sugarcoat this ugly part of our history. Unbelievable that people were still being lynched into the 1930's and even post-WWII....(and not just in the South.) I've read on this subject a bit...terrible! Anyway, that's just one piece of the movie. Mostly it's an idealistic, inspiring message of overcoming. Rent it!....I think it's quite interesting especially in light of all that's happening politically. Trying to honestly understand the history of others can be enlightening...and humbling.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

"On Our Watch"....

This evening's showing on PBS of Frontline: On Our Watch (on the humanitarian crisis/genocide in Darfur) is worth recommending. This was originally played in Nov. 2007, but I must have missed it then. I believe you can actually watch the whole program through the link. It is painful to watch....painful to see the reality of suffering and a mostly unconcerned international community. I have tried to pay attention to this issue....interestingly, you do have to work to access information. Some evangelicals have been leaders in this fight. I understand this is a highly complicated issue....but the reality of innocent souls dying is not so complicated that all of us should not have some interest in making change happen. I urge you to check out this link as well as the Save Darfur link on the side.

This famous WWII era quote from Pastor Martin Niemoller is a magnet on my fridge (not the most upbeat magnet in the world! I bought it at the Houston Holocaust Museum). I thought of it tonight:
"First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out because I was not a Socialist. Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out because I was not a trade unionist. Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me, and there was no one left to speak out."

Saturday, June 7, 2008

Writing Aloud...

Should be asleep....(you know...resting)...unfortunately, had coffee a little too late and I'm jazzed up, as they say. So here's what's on my little mind....been thinkin of starting a Facebook...should I or should I not? Probably not, without 1st having a decent computer....but give me your thoughts...why should I? Here's why I should not:
1) I don't get it....
2) I will become more paranoid...
3) It was started by some guy who now is responsible for a lot of the networking that has helped Obama win this thing....got to be something up with that...Wow, what a phenomenon! (but shouldn't one catch up with the times?)
4) I will become more overwhelmed....
5) I will stop being able to be condescending about Facebook if I join it myself...wouldn't that be a loss!!!
Seriously, give me some thoughts here....but whatever anyone says, probably won't do it for awhile at least...I like to take oh at least 5 to 10 years to work up to something.

Here's another tangent...it's the wedding season...always a lovely time. Attending a shower for a sweet young friend and doing a last minute wedding job this weekend. The 1st pianist is in the hospital, so luckily for me, the bride's sister knew me from Catholic church and called me up. Easy $....gotta love that!:) Happy that the music is easy and that it's in a Protestant church so I can play a more "worldly" prelude. (Including one of my faves "The Gift".) The groom is called "Bear" (EVEN IN THE PROGRAM!). Perhaps this is one of my "single" problems...not being more open to getting together w/a guy named "Bear." (From my brief look tonight, he seems a good enough soul and they seem a sweet couple.) But here's this quote I saw in a Newsweek article about the "SATC" movie....(no I have not gone to see that...quit hyperventilating!!)...."Some people are settling down, some are settling, and some people refuse to settle for anything else~than butterflies." Yep.....it's the wedding season...

Perhaps this semi-sentimental mood is related to just finishing watching my borrowed copy of "Enchanted"....so enjoyed it...cute stuff and sweet music. But I could really talk for awhile about the themes raised....does "wearing your heart on your sleeve" really get you anywhere?...can't convince me that it does. But wouldn't it be somethin if we just said what we felt more of the time? Maybe the idea of believing in "ever after" shouldn't be completely abandoned. Well...are you tired yet...I think I am...And A Happy Weekend to All....
(thanks for hearing my silliness...)